Jealous of Your Partner?

It has always baffled me how someone can be jealous of their significant other.  The person that they claim to love.  Yet, this occurs in many couples all over the world.  When you are with someone, and they are doing well in business, in life in general, I would think that you would be elated and celebrate all of their accomplishments along the way. 

A promotion, a bill of good health, awards for a job well done, starting a business, and so forth.  These are all things that you would think your significant other would be happy about, considering your accomplishments benefit them as well.  It is mind boggling to me how many people are jealous of their man or woman.

If you are together, his win is your win and her win is your win.  Understandably, jealously is a common human emotion, and it is natural to feel a twinge of it from time to time.  However, if it is affecting your relationship, perhaps you should be single.  I truly believe that you should not be in a relationship until you are whole and healed.  Instead, you need to work on yourself and your insecurities before inviting anyone into your life. 

My forever love, wherever he is, will not only believe in me, but he will encourage me, trust me, and have my best interest in mind.  If he doesn’t, then what are we even doing?  And as we are building businesses separately and / or together, it would be my hope that we cheer one another on along the way without feeling slighted or jealous of the other.

Oftentimes, we tend to compare ourselves to others, even to the one we are in a relationship with.  However, when we do this, it can lead to feelings of jealously and unhappiness.  We may even start to envy them, but it is important to remember that even when in a relationship, we each have our own path and our own journey, and no two journeys are the same.  I also believe that being happy for the success and accomplishments of others helps to bring success to us.  Celebrating others is good for you. 

If you find yourself getting jealous of your significant other, remind yourself of who you are, and how much you have accomplished.  Perhaps repeating a few affirmations may help.  Let’s try a few.  I am powerful.  I am strong.  I am confident.  I am grateful.  I am manifesting the life that I want.  Please know and believe that you can accomplish anything that you set out to do.  Both you and your partner can.  Just keep going and keep cheering one another on along the way.