They Can’t Keep Up

Have you ever noticed that some people, when they are unable to keep up with you on an intellectual level, whether it be a debate or so forth, they resort to name calling or back biting?  Or, they will say what famous word “whatever,” when they don’t really have anything to say?

Some people cannot engage in a debate on an intellectual level without trying to hit someone below the knees, especially if their own argument is weak.  Such a debate requires critical thinking, respecting the viewpoints of another even if you do not agree, and of course, effective communication.  Unfortunately, some people lack all three of these, and instead, their ego takes over when they realize that they cannot keep up with the other person. 

When it comes to intellectual debates, the goal is not necessarily to ‘win’ but to challenge assumptions and be open to other ideas.  This is why it is important to come prepared with research and well thought out responses.  It is also important to be an active listener who is open to new information and perspectives, even if they contradict your own ideas. 

Some people however, do not like to be challenged in their views, no matter the subject, and instead of having an intellectual debate, with the understanding that you may not agree with the other person at all, they act immature and prideful.  They may become flustered and because they find that they cannot or do not articulate their arguments effectively to help ensure that their point is understood, they allow their emotions to take over.  Their tone, demeanor and words become disrespectful and downright rude, and they sometimes try to belittle or even dominate the other person.  I’m sure that we have all seen this type of behavior with various politicians in recent years, as well as over the course of history. 

At a certain point, it is no longer an intellectual debate, but one that is one-sided as the other person could not keep up intellectually.  At that point, it is futile.  Part of an intellectual debate is to also acknowledge that you do not have all of the answers and be willing to revise your views in light of new information being presented to you, which can allow for a more fruitful and fulfilling debate or conversation.  Ultimately, the goal is to grow intellectually and be open to new ideas and information.